Age:  31

Location: Los Angeles, CA (prefer to stay here for now)

 

Submission is not a role; it is a way of life…
i’m a loyal, devoted submissive who could be a slave to the right One. i’m single and do not have any children now, though i would like to have a family at some point in the future. i’m looking for a long term commitment and am willing to make one as well. i am a lump of clay ready to be molded into a wonderful reward for the Master willing to put in a bit of extra effort. Submission is who i am; it is the core of my being, and not a role I play. Trust and submission are gifts that are the result of a process. They are earned, not demanded.

Health…
i’m a bbw, but working on losing weight. That is an issue for some so i like to be up front about it. Because i am working so hard on my weight loss, i desire a Master for whom health is an important part of His life. The One i seek will have His health (including weight) under control so that He can help and assist in motivating me with mine.

Hard limits…
i don’t believe in submissives who do not have limits. W/we all have limits of some kind and in the ‘perfect’ relationship, the limits of a Master (yes, Masters have limits as well) would coincide with the limits of the submissive so well that it would give the appearance of having no limits. But let’s be real, life isn’t perfect and relationships require a lot of give and take. That being said, my hard limits are not based on my personal preferences, but on medical issues and hygiene, for the most part. my hard limits are anything that is permanent until i have been collared awhile, rape (including in scenes and other play), scat, ingesting urine or blood, fantasy abandonment, and gags and oral for medical reasons, i have a disorder of the jaw called TMJ which makes it extremely painful to have my mouth open for any length of time. i am seeking a real time, 24/7, relationship. i do not cyber, so please don’t waste Your time and mine.

Who are You…?
i seek a One who is more sensual than sadistic. One who is a true Alpha male, not just dominant. He must be strict with me as i can be strong willed at times. Please desire to challenge me, pushing me beyond what i believe i can accomplish. Know that i am not a door mat, but an intelligent submissive who could be a slave to the right One who captures my mind, body, and soul. Please be real, understanding the difference between the fantasy of a nude girl running around the house with nipple clamps on and toys inserted all day long and the reality of how this lifestyle is truly lived 24/7. The One for me will have full control over His own life before making any attempt to control the life of another. He will enjoy cuddling after a scene as much as He enjoys the scene itself. He will know and practice the concepts of honor, integrity, trust, loyalty, and communication for without these, no relationship can thrive.

 

i seek One who is close to my age.  i have my reasons and i will not argue those with anyone.  Please respect the decision i have made.

 

PLEASE no smokers or drug users.

Experiences i have had…
While i am not a seasoned veteran, i am also not a complete newbie either. i have done my best to serve several wannabes, have had a 24/7 Trainer, and have even spent some time as a professional Domme. That doesn’t mean that i switch, as i don’t. It means that i know the correct use of toys as well as understand a bit of where a Dominant is coming from at times. For more details on types of play i have experienced, please visit Soulshaven (opens in a new window). my user name for that site is sarah.

Please only contact me if You are real and serious. i look forward to hearing from You.

yahoo messenger: herpurpledreamz
email/MSN messenger: submissivelypurple@hotmail.com

Note…please do not send email to my yahoo account. It is full of junk mail and i rarely check it.